Welcome to Blooming with Care
Hello World!
This blog space is called Blooming with Care because we are not just aging, we are BLOOMING. Care means to take care and my hope is that this blog encourages us all to take better care of ourselves. May this space be a sacred space where the science of aging sits with the research on mindfulness. Also, Care is short for Caroline Woodard. That’s me, my dearest friends and family call me Care. I have been a physical therapist for over 30 years. I work with seniors, improving their strength and balance; also healing aches and pains with manual treatments. I have been drawn to the older population all my Life.
When I was 2 years old, we lived in the Bronx, NYC. Every day, my Mom took me to the park, where I would run right up to the elderly and walk or sit with them, sometimes holding their hands. The other mothers were horrified, telling my Mom it was too dangerous and she needed to teach me to be afraid of strangers. Wise woman my Mom… she knew I was safe, she was right behind me. She thought, how could she stop something that was bringing such joy into older people’s lives. I hope to bring joy now too at the age of 52! Many changes are happening with my body, and each thing intrigues me. Here, we go together, on a journey to discover the science behind aging and examine the ways we have to stem the tide and age with grace and joy, independence and strength.
“Look around. Look around at how lucky we are to be alive right now.” ~ Hamilton, The Musical.
I know at 52, I don’t have very much experience of my own about aging. It’s a little bit like when I was pregnant with our first child; SO excited and wearing a maternity dress after only one month! But I have been so blessed to meet some incredible and inspiring older people and I will introduce you to them as we go along.
We are so lucky to be growing older at this time in history. Research comes out almost daily on aging and on how to lead happier lives. We are witnessing the interface between western medicine and eastern medicine, and it is at this junction between the two philosophies that the greatest progress will be made in our day to day lives as we age. Miracles abound.
I’ll leave you today with one of my favorite balance studies where researchers compared 30 yr olds and 70 yr olds on balance boards. The two groups were equally balanced until they were all given a math problem and then the 70 year olds fell off. What is the science behind the results…? When we are younger, balance is controlled primarily by the cerebellum, which means it is reflexive and we don’t have to think about it. As we age, balance becomes mainly controlled by the frontal lobe, which means we have to concentrate on it. This is incredibly hopeful to me. When we are young, we are wired to do multiple tasks at once; as we age, we need to concentrate on the task we are presently doing. Have you heard of mindfulness…? In a nutshell, mindfulness means that we are more deeply happy and peace filled if we can train our brains to stay in the present moment and not let our minds run constantly back over the past or wonder and worry about the future. Our bodies actually change with age in ways that nudge us toward mindfulness! We have to concentrate on the actual step we are taking and not do 5 things at once. What a gift!
Eckhart Tolle said, “ Old age, if one is lucky enough to be old, is the flowering of consciousness.”
That is the work we are doing … flowering.
Welcome to Blooming with Care! Be well, my flowering friends.
8 Comments
Sharon
Beautifully written and you, like your mother-are very wise! I look forward to your next entry and will wait very mindfully for it! ❤️
Care
I finally figured out how to respond to comments! I love you! Thanks for the compliment of being as wise as my mom!! I hope that someday I’m as wise as you.
KD Childs
Thank you Caroline! I am so ‘flowering”! I love what you are writing! Look forward to reading more and blooming with you my friend. Peace and love to you!
Care
We sure did “Bloom” together! Bigger and bigger our stomachs got with Sarah and Ellie until we were bumping into each other behind the desk at M.O.S.T. Peace and love right back to you my friend!
Jessica
How proud I am of you! I am with you on this wonderful journey and look forward to reading more.
Care
It is beautiful to think how long we have been on this journey of life together! 2nd grade Blue birds to now! Hope you and all your neighbors have recovered from the hurricane.
Trudy Lindsay
Beautifully written Caroline and food for thought for another “blooming” human!!!
Care
Hoping my gardens look like yours someday, complete with expressive geese:)